Note To Self: Understanding



At times, we tend to judge others for their actions that we begin to dislike them or even hate them. I feel that it is better to understand other people as to why they act or speak the way they do and as to why they treat others poorly. Certainly, I have failed to understand certain people that I ended up distrusting and disliking them.

I have been practicing this “understanding others” way because I feel that it makes me a better person. I always try to put myself in that person’s situation and try to understand them instead of dislike them. I feel that being understanding shows kindness towards another. This is definitely a note-to-self because it is important to build relationships than burn bridges.



4 Comments Add yours

  1. coachjerry says:

    I like your post on Understanding. I agree totally, though I come at the same view from the standpoint of unconditional love. Seeking to understand other people rather than judging them is, to me, loving them unconditionally. I think the way you put it is easier for people to accept.
    Thanks for following my blog. I shall be following yours too and hope to see your comments and responses as you share your viewpoints both here and at 80Insights.

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    1. larriane18 says:

      Hello Jerry! Thank you so much! I totally agree with you about seeking to understand others rather than judging them, is loving them. I will definitely look forward to your posts as I like to read. Once again, thank you.

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  2. coachjerry says:

    Reblogged this on 80 INSIGHTS and commented:
    Understanding other people, rather than judging them is a wonderful way to love unconditionally. I believe everyone is doing their best, though it may not be the best they can ever be. Love them for where they are and the journey they’re on. Jerry


  3. astridswords says:

    Understanding truly helps us to open our minds to the great gifts that we are being offered.


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